Umembeso is a traditional ceremony whereby the grooms family presents gifts to the bride's parents and family.
Umembeso wenziwa insizwa esuke isiganiwe lapho isuke ihambisa izipho ekhweni layo. Izipho lezi zisuke zibhekiswe kubazali bentombi kanye nasemndenini wayo.
Abakubo kamkhwenyana bambesa umakoti wabo bamuphe nezipho ezinhle kanye nomakotshana wakhe. Baphinde bambathise umama nezihlobo zikamakoti ngezingubo zokulala, amaphinifa, amaduku, izitsha, amabhodwe nezinto zetiye. Ubaba kamakoti yena umbathiswa ngejazi, isigqoko, nokunye.